Stylebook Snapshot / Bridal gowns repurposed into dresses for baby 'angels'

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Rose Ann Milbert is a registered nurse in the neonatal intensive care unit at Magee-Womens Hospital of UPMC. On the side, she helps people with another skill: sewing.

She’‍s a seamstress talented in tending to bridal gowns, and when her friends and co-workers have babies, she often makes their christening gowns, she says.

Recently she’‍s started combining what she knows about all of these to repurpose wedding gowns that already have journeyed down the aisle into angel gowns -- small dresses provided to families of babies who died in the hospital. They can be used to dress the baby for burial or kept by the family as a keepsake to honor the child’‍s brief life.

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She embarked on the endeavor in May and already has had more than 100 wedding gowns donated to the cause. Her sister and a handful of other nurses help her take the gowns apart and cut them according to patterns, and Ms. Milbert sews the pieces together at her home in Freedom into four sizes for baby boys and girls. Each has its own personality; some are covered in lace while others are trimmed with buttons and a hint of color. All are open in the back so they can easily slip on. Gowns given at Magee have an angel pin on each and are wrapped in tissue paper with a card and presented to the family in a memory box. So far gowns also have been distributed to Children’‍s Hospital of Pittsburgh of UPMC and Excela Westmoreland Hospital. Ms. Milbert received a request for gowns from the Penn State Milton S. Hershey Medical Center, too. 

“I think it gives the parents a little bit of peace of mind when they look at them, and they see their baby as an angel,” she says.

In the past when babies died in the hospital they typically were wrapped in a blanket or some material. As word of Ms. Milbert‘‍s work has spread, other nurses have offered their wedding gowns.

She got the idea when a friend introduced her to NICU Helping Hands, a nonprofit organization in Fort Worth, Texas. It created angel gowns for local families for about a year before WFAA-TV Channel 8 news in Dallas/Fort Worth did a story on them in March. Within a few minutes of the piece airing, the organization received dozens of emails, says president and founder Lisa Grubbs. Within a few days the story had gone viral, capturing the attention of major media outlets such as Huffington Post and NBC’‍s “Today.” 

The project has outgrown Ms. Grubbs’‍‍ home; now she and a team of volunteer seamstresses work in a warehouse that was donated to them. Like Ms. Milbert, NICU Helping Hands provides gowns at no cost to families and hospitals that request them. When the need is urgent, the group can ship the gown overnight.

Because Ms. Grubbs‘‍ husband is a specialist for premature babies, she also noticed the lack of garments available to dress a deceased infant. Families often ended up sorting through piles of donated clothes at the hospital to see if anything fit, she says. This is just another example of what she considers a void in the assistance that’‍s available for families of newborns after they leave the hospital. In addition to the angel gowns initiative, NICU Helping Hands organizes mentoring programs and helps put parents in touch with others with premature children.

“Science has done amazing things to save premature babies,” Ms. Grubbs says. “Unfortunately, we’‍re still catching up with the emotional support and educational support that families need.” 

People across the country -- and the world -- have been lending support. Some, like Ms. Milbert, have organized their own local networks for designing and distributing angel gowns. NICU Helping Hands has an international chapter in Australia and this fall plans to launch a national chapter program. Communities will be able to apply to start their own angel gown groups affiliated with the nonprofit that adhere to a set of “best practices” guidelines.

“People give when their hearts are touched,” Ms. Grubbs says. “I think this is a prime example of that.”

And they‘‍re compelled to give for various reasons. Ms. Milbert has received gowns from women representing all walks of life, from newlyweds to those who were wed decades ago.

“People have sent letters and pictures with their wedding gown donations,” Ms. Grubbs says. “Many are women who 30 or 40 years ago lost babies at a time when they never even got to hold the baby. A lot of healing is taking place. They’‍re mailing gowns in honor of babies who they lost that were never honored in the way that we’‍re doing with families now.”

Sometimes women send her dresses wanting them to be turned into an angel gown for a specific family in need, which Ms. Grubbs strives to accommodate.

“That becomes very personal because then you have a story that goes with the gown you’‍re currently making,” she says. “That’‍s what living should be all about: sharing our stories and honoring lives that impacted ours.”

For more from style editor Sara Bauknecht, visit the Post-Gazette’‍s fashion blog Stylebook at Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @SaraB_PG or email

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