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Parenting: Cell phones for children
Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Question: My 8-year-old wants a cell phone. At what age do you recommend this responsibility?

Answer: This question does not have a "one size fits all" answer. Parents need to make the decision for their own families.

Here are some of the issues many parents consider before saying yes or no to a cell phone:

• Does the child actually need a cell phone -- for instance, to get in touch with parents? How often, and under what circumstances? Is the child away from home without you a lot (for instance, participating in afterschool activities or sporting events)?

• How responsible is the child? Enough to keep the phone charged, keep it safe -- and not lose it or let it sit uncharged in a backpack once the novelty has worn off?

• Is the child willing to help pay for the phone -- for example, through an ongoing modest deduction from his or her allowance?

• Can the family afford both the initial and ongoing costs of an additional cell phone?

• What would the ground rules be? A limited number of minutes each month? Limited texting? Calls only to parents and grandparents, but not to peers? One or two peer calls per day?

• It's not always an easy decision. In case it helps, we've recently read that more than 25 percent of kids ages 8 to 11 have cell phones. Since many children are given cell phones when they reach middle-school age, the number is probably higher in the older end of that range, and lower at your child's age.




The 4 Kids Early Learning Network, a program of Heritage Community Initiatives, has gathered more than 100 columns plus family activities and health information into a book: "Raising Your Young Child in the Real World." Order with a check for the $7.95 shipping/handling fee to Heritage Community Initiatives, 820 Braddock Ave., Braddock 15104, or call 412-351-0535 to use a credit card. For advice, e-mail: questions@4kidsearlyed.org, or mail to Heritage.
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First published on December 2, 2009 at 12:00 am
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