Question: My 8-year-old wants a cell phone. At what age do you recommend this responsibility?
Answer: This question does not have a "one size fits all" answer. Parents need to make the decision for their own families.
Here are some of the issues many parents consider before saying yes or no to a cell phone:
Does the child actually need a cell phone -- for instance, to get in touch with parents? How often, and under what circumstances? Is the child away from home without you a lot (for instance, participating in afterschool activities or sporting events)?
How responsible is the child? Enough to keep the phone charged, keep it safe -- and not lose it or let it sit uncharged in a backpack once the novelty has worn off?
Is the child willing to help pay for the phone -- for example, through an ongoing modest deduction from his or her allowance?
Can the family afford both the initial and ongoing costs of an additional cell phone?
What would the ground rules be? A limited number of minutes each month? Limited texting? Calls only to parents and grandparents, but not to peers? One or two peer calls per day?
It's not always an easy decision. In case it helps, we've recently read that more than 25 percent of kids ages 8 to 11 have cell phones. Since many children are given cell phones when they reach middle-school age, the number is probably higher in the older end of that range, and lower at your child's age.
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