Q: I will be going back to work after maternity leave. My mother-in-law has offered to watch my baby and I know she loves him but she'd probably leave him in front of the TV a lot. I am wondering whether a day care center with professionals might be better for him. Please talk about pros and cons.

A: You've already noted a pro and a con of leaving your baby with your mother-in-law: She loves him, but she might not give him the stimulation he needs.

Here are some things to consider when you think about professional child care and early learning -- for example, at a center.

There is some possibility of initial separation anxiety, but that's readily managed. At least initially, your son may have more sniffles than if he were with your mother-in-law, because he'd be in regular contact with other kids. Some group settings provide less opportunity for one-on-one adult-child interactions, but of course they also provide opportunities for growth through socialization. If the other children exhibit negative behaviors, your child may temporarily pick them up, but you and the center can turn that around. Some centers can be costly, while others are not. Some families are eligible for subsidies or scholarships.

Among the "pros" to consider: Your child will be cared for and taught by educated, trained professionals, who will use a curriculum with lesson plans and related activities. The days will be structured so your child will know what to expect while enjoying variety. He will be able to learn the pleasures and skills that come with socializing with other infants and children, and he will, at an early age, become able to form bonds with other children and adults outside his immediate family. He will be learning the skills and attitudes that lead to success in school. At the best centers, both in-house and outside services can be accessed when appropriate to benefit your child, and the center will consult regularly with you about his growth and development.

Remember that most quality centers offer parents a choice of schedules Depending on your wishes and your comfort level, you might fashion a schedule for your son that combines several days a week at a center, and a day or two with Grandma.

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