Mothers everywhere will receive gifts, cards and hugs this Sunday. But, for those who have suffered the loss of a child, the day is a time of remembered gifts and kisses.

Cheryl Wright of Pleasant Hills will spend her first Mother's Day without her daughter, Tia, 12, who was killed in a traffic accident on April 5.

Tia's father, Karl Wright, continues to recover from serious injuries suffered in that two-vehicle collision, blamed on a drunken teenage driver. Another 12-year-old, a passenger in the Wright car and Tia's best friend, is also recuperating from injuries.

Despite her grief, Mrs. Wright is finding comfort from friends, neighbors -- even strangers.

"The community has been wonderful, [it] has done more than we could have ever expected," Mrs. Wright said.

Local businesses donated the funeral services and flowers for Tia, she said. Food was also donated to feed the more than 800 people who attended a memorial service at the Pleasant Hills Community Presbyterian Church on April 13.

Since the funeral, friends and strangers continue to offer gestures of kindness. Neighbors have brought over dinners, and a landscaper volunteered to help plant flowers in the family's yard, Mrs. Wright said. Also, about 30 of Tia's friends showed up at the family's front door, she aid, looking for ways to help around the house. A neighborhood boy went door-to-door collecting money for the family.

The latest effort to support the Wright family is being spearheaded by the Thomas Jefferson Youth Cheerleading Association, which is selling rubber wristbands in Thomas Jefferson's school colors, black and gold. The bands read simply, "Tia." Tia had cheered for years with the group.

Bracelet sales were officially kicked off Friday night at the high school at a basketball game between some Steelers and TJ youth football coaches. Proceeds benefitted the building of the TJ youth football complex, but about 100 bracelets were sold that night.

The group said that it is hoping to raise $10,000 by selling 2,000 bracelets, at a cost of $5 each. Because the wristbands were underwritten by local photography business Prints Charming Designs, Inc., all of the money spent to purchase bracelets will go to the Wright family.

"This felt like a great way to help out," said Bob Marlow, of Jefferson Hills, owner of Prints.

"I remember taking Tia's picture with the cheerleading squad, and her loss has really impacted me and my wife."

His business will spend about $500 to purchase the bracelets.

"There's not a family in this community that hasn't been impacted by what happened," Mr. Marlow said.

Troy Baxendell, a youth football coordinator whose daughter cheered with Tia, said that he hopes the bracelets will not only help the Wright family, but will also send a message to the community, especially high school students, about the dangers of driving under the influence of alcohol.

"This is a big wake-up call," he said. "Hopefully the bracelets will serve as a tremendous reminder of how dangerous this kind of behavior can be."

Crystal Lyons, the president of the Board of Directors of the Cheerleading Association and a mother of a TJ youth cheerleader, said that organizing the bracelet sales has helped the cheerleaders cope with their sense of loss.

"It's amazing to see how they have put aside grieving to see how they can help," she said.

Mrs. Wright said that she was especially touched by the cheerleader's efforts.

"Tia really enjoyed cheerleading," she said. "She always had a big smile on her face and liked performing."

The continuing help is appreciated, Mrs. Wright said, since family life is demanding since the accident. Mrs. Wright continues to go to school full time to learn sonography. She attends CCAC at the Boyce campus in Monroeville. Tia's father who works for Fist Energy Corp in Shippingport, is still being treated for his injuries and recently underwent surgery on his leg to repair muscle damage. He will likely also require a steel rod to be inserted in his leg because of a shattered bone. Mrs. Wright said he will be in the hospital for at least eight more weeks.

"It's difficult, but feeling the support of everyone makes dealing with the hard times easier," she said.

"The strength of others does hold us up. This isn't easy, but the help we received has made it bearable," Mrs. Wright said. "People are going out of their way to tell the family that they loved Tia, and her family.''

Michele and Doug Childers, of Pleasant Hills, the parents of Taylor Childers, 12, who was in the Wright pickup with Tia during the accident, said that community has also offered prayers and support to their family. Taylor suffered a concussion, broken wrist, headaches and verbal memory loss. She will stay at home recovering for the remainder of the school year.

Tia and Taylor were best friends since the third grade, Mrs. Childers said, and were inseparable.

Mrs. Wright said she will spend Sunday with her two children Karl "Woody", 18, and Krista, 16. Together they will pay quiet tribute to Tia who Mrs. Wright describes as a child with an "energetic sense of humor.''

"Every night at the dinner table she would work to make the family laugh, making silly faces.'' recalled her mom. "Tia was the kind of child that a parent has a hard time ever yelling at.''

This school year was Tia's first year in middle school, her mother said, and she and her father were concerned that the transition would be difficult. "But that wasn't the case. She kept her old friends and also made new ones. She was happy."

"I always saw a bright future for her," Mrs. Wright said. "She was a little star."

Tia was a passenger in a pickup truck driven by her father, which collided with a sport utility vehicle on Gill Hall Road in Jefferson Hills. She died of blunt force trauma at the scene. The teenage driver of the car that collided with her father's vehicle has been charged in connection with Tia's death. Police said the 17-year-old boy, who was not injured, had been drinking alcohol, speeding and driving recklessly. He is charged with homicide by vehicle while D.U.I, homicide by vehicle, involuntary manslaughter, aggravated assault while driving drunk and a number of summary violations. He is in Shuman Juvenile Detention Center. Police said he will be prosecuted as a juvenile.

Tia bracelets can be ordered online at www.tjyca.com or purchased at Meder's Nursery, 360 Regis Ave, Pleasant Hills.