Q: We chose our wedding date -- which falls on a Wednesday -- because it's the anniversary of the day we met. Problem is, our families are grumbling about a midweek wedding. The date we want won't fall on the weekend for three years, and we can't wait that long! Should we switch?

A: While "off day" weddings are becoming more common, if a couple chooses to forego the usual Saturday, they usually opt to marry on a Friday or Sunday.

Why? Unless it's a very small-scale affair, it may be difficult for guests to travel for a wedding that's in the middle of the week (unless it is a destination wedding, which is already a longer trip), and even those who are close might not be able to easily get off work for the day.

Think about how important it truly is to you to have your wedding on this specific date -- is it worth having a special friend or relative be potentially unable to attend? In the end it is your call, but be aware that you may wind up with a few holes in your guest list. And remember, you're creating a new meaningful date to celebrate with your wedding anniversary -- is having two days to toast your relationship really so bad?