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Finding new ways to work and play (cont.)
Another kind of job
For many seniors, a paying job isnt the only way to work.
Many serve instead as volunteers, making up the biggest percentage of helpers at many
non-profit groups and organizations. In fact, one-third of all adults over age 65 give
their time to help others.
Ida Notov, of Squirrel Hill, joined the volunteer ranks in 1967, after being a
full-time mother to two daughters and taking care of her husband until his death that
year. Since then, she has volunteered in as many as seven hospitals a week.
At 90, she relies on county transportation to take her to the five hospitals shes
still active in. She has particularly strong ties to the Western Psychiatric Institute and
Clinic, where she has spent one day a week without fail for the past 15 years, putting in
more than 3,300 hours visiting people in the in-patient geriatric unit.
"Its my pillar of strength," said Notov, who has never been
hospitalized. "By the time I get out of the hospitals, Im the richest lady in
the world."
Notov also has won several awards for her work, including the Retired and Senior
Volunteer Programs Volunteer of the Year award in 1993.
A national organization, RSVP matches almost 950 local volunteers with nonprofit
institutions and organizations. While the numbers havent changed recently, the goals
of many volunteers have, said Marlene Urso, field coordinator for RSVP.
"Were getting more people who want to do something more challenging,"
Urso said. "They want to really make a difference."
One national group that eases the transition from work to volunteering is the National
Retiree Volunteer Coalition, which helps companies organize volunteer groups for their
retirees. Mellon Bank is one of five local businesses that has worked with the coalition.
The resulting Mellon Volunteer Professionals took on 298 projects last year involving
1,507 volunteers, said spokeswoman Kathy Carohak.
The bank donates space and minimal funding, but the volunteers organize themselves,
said their current president, Martha Catizone. Retirees join the program to give back to
the community as well as for its social benefits, she said.
"We learned that its a unique way of keeping in touch with people we have
worked with formerly, and whose company we enjoyed," Catizone said.
Though there are many other national or business volunteer organizations, most
volunteering is informal or community-based. Older people might spend much of their time
baby-sitting for grandchildren and helping friends.
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| Helen Golembeski, 75, talks with Paul Staudenmaier
as she delivers a hot meal to him at his Lawrenceville home. Golembeski and her husband
volunteer for the Meals on Wheels program at Our Lady of the Angels in Lawrenceville,
where they live. (Tony Tye / Post-Gazette) |
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Helen and Leo Golembeskis neighbors in Polish Hill call them for emergency rides
to a doctor or hospital at all hours, although they now spend most of their volunteer time
working with the Lawrenceville Meals on Wheels. The organization is backed by the Lutheran
Service Society, but the Golembeskis first learned about it through their Catholic church.
Helen, 75, has worked at least once a week for the past 21 years. Leo, 76, joined his wife
on his days off and has worked regularly since he retired from U.S. Steel 16 years ago.
Every Tuesday morning, they load 17 hot meals and 17 brown bag lunches into their
Cadillac. When they visit the homes of the frail elderly, its not just hot vittles
theyre serving.
"Sometimes, were the only people that they talk to," Leo said.
"Some are cranky, but
we make them laugh before we leave."
The Golembeskis are two of the 3,643 volunteers who operate the 64 Meals on Wheels in
Allegheny County. Seventy-seven percent of their volunteers are older than 75.
Different ways of giving
Senior citizens volunteer in different ways depending on their ages, according to Keith
Kondrich, director of Good Neighbors, a United Way volunteer placement agency.
"A lot of national trends are pointing in the direction of recently retired people
who would like to use the skills and talents they gained in a work career in a volunteer
situation," Kondrich said.
While younger retirees may be most drawn by the kind of activities they would perform
as volunteers, older senior citizens gravitate to the communities and institutions they
know and trust.
Generational studies have shown that the older elderly also stand by their local
religious organizations.
"That generation has a loyalty to the church, and they have a sense of
giving," said Elly Fleming, assistant director of pastoral care at Presbyterian
Seniorcare at Oakmont. "They are of the era where they know about stewardship in the
church. Thats their tradition. Theyre of the generation that knows something
about sacrifice
They can hold forth a vision of the church in strength at a time
when our churches are losing members."
Those values are ones that clergy need to recognize as they interact with increasingly
older congregations, she said.
"I think seminaries are not fully aware of this fact, and ministers come out of
seminaries thinking theyre going to serve a church of 30 and 40 year olds,"
Fleming said. "They are not really trained in how to
minister with
[older congregants] and not to them."
Clergy have long debated ways of dealing with the graying of the church. Years ago,
Catholic churches opened aging offices, prepared books, and sponsored workshops on
ministering to the elderly, said the Rev. Dave Bonner, rector of St. Paul Seminary in
Crafton.
Christianity will not die out with the older generation, said Gary McIntosh, a church
consultant from California who wrote "Three Generations: Riding the Waves of Change
in Your Church." In spite of growing distractions such as television, he said the
population that attends church has not shifted substantially in the last 50 years.
What has changed, McIntosh said, is that younger generations are moving out of their
local parishes and into newer, larger congregations that can offer them more, such as the
20,000-member Willow Creek Community Church outside of Chicago. Older adults may be the
only people willing to remain in smaller, local parishes, he said.
The Jewish community "has been wonderfully stable," said Rabbi Stephen
Steindel, chair of the Pittsburgh Rabbinic group. Although one-third of the Jewish
religious community is over the age of 60, "There is a very positive balance. One of
the uniquenesses of Squirrel Hill is that youve got children and grandchildren
living on the same block as their grandparents."
"As long as were able to attract and keep the middle generation and the
younger generation there wont be a crisis," Steindel said.
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